Wednesday, April 27, 2016

Thought of the Day: Don't Dwell on Mistakes

Thought of the Day:

"Don't dwell on mistakes from the past." Penelope Winthrop
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You can regret your mistakes and regret hurting the people in your life, but you're not going to gain a single thing by dwelling on them. Instead, learn from them and actively work to avoid making them again. Everyone makes them, but one key difference between those who move past them and those who don't is that they don't sit around wondering what they could have done to change it. They let it go.


Focus on the here and now. If you're focused on the disappointments from the past, then you're going to miss a chance to turn the page and find something new. If you botched an opportunity, look for more. There is always something else out there. 


If you failed in the past, then look at it this way: You've discovered one way NOT to do something. Don't be afraid to try again, but this time—do it differently. Face your fears. If you're unsure about how to move forward, reach out to someone who has been in your shoes. Pick up a book or do some research online. There are many excellent resources, but don't remain stagnant by doing absolutely nothing.


Get motivated about what you can do today. What you put in today is going to determine your future. Always give 100 percent!! Have an amazing day, everyone! 

Tuesday, April 26, 2016

Thought of the Day: You Become What You Envision

Thought of the Day:

"No matter where you turn in life, you're always going to encounter a problem. It's how you react that determines whether you spring back or not." Penelope Winthrop

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Every single person around the globe has problems. Some people face situations you couldn't even begin to fathom. Some are in these scenarios every single day of their lives. 


My life certainly is far from perfect, but I made a conscious decision not to zoom in on them because if I did, then I would probably have a very negative attitude and outlook on life. And, honestly, I don't want to live like that. I don't want to be unhappy because my life isn't perfect. 


I choose to focus on the things that matter and make me happy. I choose to appreciate the good things I have in my life. I keep a positive attitude. YES, I wake up every day feeling thankful and blessed that I'm still here to influence my children and make a difference in their lives. Keep moving forward every single day—even if it's just a little bit at a time. Learn and grow as an individual as you go through life. You become what you envision.